There’s nothing sadder than celebrating a special event without a much loved family member or friend. But it happens to all of us. Weddings are held without Grandma or Grandpa or, sadly, without Mom or Dad. It’s natural to feel sad about missing that special person, but it is possible to do a little something to keep their memory alive as you go through that special day.

Certainly, you can include photos or other memorabilia connected to the deceased as part of the festivities. In addition, however, companies that carry personalized items usually offer for purchase “memorial” vases, “memorial” candles or other products that pay tribute to special people who have passed on before the event but whose lives had a significant impact on the bride and groom or other individual celebrating a special day.

These memorial vases usually bear a line from Scripture or a verse from an appropriate poem. In addition, the name of the person being memorialized and the dates of their life (birth-death) can be included as well. The vase may be placed wherever it is deemed appropriate. For example, it may sit on the altar during a wedding ceremony or near the guest book or wedding cake at a reception. The bride and groom can determine the best placement.

Regardless of where the personalized memorial item is placed, however, it will be a significant reminder of a much-loved person (or people) in the life of those whose special day has arrived.